A Matter of Survival?
Four Principles for Christlike Discussion of Controversial Subjects In our confirmation culture, being right is considered an achievable absolute, and being wrong is synonymous with unpardonable sin. Disagreement is not tolerated and is met with belligerence and hostility and even violence (verbal or physical). Relationships are damaged or destroyed in the climate of intolerance. In the teachings and life modeling of Jesus of Nazareth and in subsequent Christian ethical teachings, relationships are paramount, and love is the only valid basis of relationships. We are called even to love our enemies (Matthew 5:43-48 and Romans 12:20-21) and both Jesus (Matthew 5:38-42) and Paul (Romans 12:17-1 and 1 Thessalonians 5:15) teach non-retaliation as a Kingdom of Heaven ethic. Sadly, relationships die, because they are human and death is part of being human. There’s even a biblical model for dealing with the death of relationships; it is a form of resurrection: “You have heard...